I posted a survey question on blogcatalog and asked how often people think about sex. I posted some of the answers in my previous blog, and there's still people answering the question. So I'm posting a couple more reponses.
The one from Kdawg68 is very interesting and other men have told me this too. Read his post:
---- From kdawg68:
When we meet a woman for the first time, a process occurrs in our brains that takes about 1/10000th of a second. It's a fascinating process that for each individual is slightly different. Mine evidently tends to look for a cute face, nice juicy squeezable butt, pretty feet with cute well pedicured toes, and a tan complextion - but the end result is the same in each of us. Our brains compute and spit out a simple decision:
Yes or No?
That's it. Those are the two categories. I either would or would not have sex with the individual. "
kdawg68's blog
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I don't know if women think the same way, I know that I don't. I don't size up a man in the first millisecond of meeting him and decide whether or not I'd sleep with him. I actually don't think about having sex with any man that I meet unless he's absolutetly gorgeous or sexy in some way. otherwise sex doesn't enter my head at all.
But a few women on the survey said they think the same way. I think they must be exceptions, not the norm.
Another blogger wroter this:
--- From mugshot:
not too often....SEX...but they say men thinkg...SEX....about sex every .....SEX SEX SEX.... seven seconds, for me its more.......SEX SEX SEX like every few minutes SEX SEX.
mugshot's blog ----
hilarious. i love blogging.
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Sunday, January 6
Monday, December 31
My Mom's Thoughts on Sex
Happy new year!!!
And its going to be a good one, with lots of communication. I can tell by the conversation I had with my mom and sister last night over dinner at a local restaurant. I don't even remember how we got on the subject of sex, but we found ourselves talking about when my mom was younger (in her mid thirties) and me and my sister were still kids. My mom mentioned dating some men and I told her I didn't know she had dated anyone when she and my dad had broken up (among one of their many breakups). I said that she never brought any men home so I thought she never dated. She mentioned something about "the back seat of a car", at which point my sister and I burst into laughter for about five minutes straight.
I've never heard my mom talk about dating, sex – or anything of a very personal nature for that matter. (My mom has remained a mystery most of my life.) So my sister and I were surprised and tickled to death when she opened up about her dating exploits and made a joke about the back seats of cars.
Then she told us she hadn't had sex in over 30 years. Yikes!!! And she wondered how it would be if she had sex again after all these years. She said if she was making out in the back seat of a car now, she's probably get all cramped up. That was followed by another five minutes of loud laughter from us.
I told her now that her children were grown and out of the house, she didn't need to resort to the back seats of cars. And then I told her about that woman who hadn't had sex for 30 years and started sleeping with men after placing a classified ad in the paper. And then wrote a book about her sexual exploits. (I wrote about this earlier in my blog. I still can't remember the name of that book or the author.) So I told my mom maybe she should put an ad in the paper and see how many responses she gets. She could have men flying in from all over the country just to have a weekend sexual encounter with her. and then she could write a book about it. (that was another good laugh.)
So the new year looks likes its going to bring good things: more open communication with my mom; a better understanding of my mom by me, and maybe some sexual encounters for my mom (although I wouldn't hold my breath on that one). Happy New Year!!!
And its going to be a good one, with lots of communication. I can tell by the conversation I had with my mom and sister last night over dinner at a local restaurant. I don't even remember how we got on the subject of sex, but we found ourselves talking about when my mom was younger (in her mid thirties) and me and my sister were still kids. My mom mentioned dating some men and I told her I didn't know she had dated anyone when she and my dad had broken up (among one of their many breakups). I said that she never brought any men home so I thought she never dated. She mentioned something about "the back seat of a car", at which point my sister and I burst into laughter for about five minutes straight.
I've never heard my mom talk about dating, sex – or anything of a very personal nature for that matter. (My mom has remained a mystery most of my life.) So my sister and I were surprised and tickled to death when she opened up about her dating exploits and made a joke about the back seats of cars.
Then she told us she hadn't had sex in over 30 years. Yikes!!! And she wondered how it would be if she had sex again after all these years. She said if she was making out in the back seat of a car now, she's probably get all cramped up. That was followed by another five minutes of loud laughter from us.
I told her now that her children were grown and out of the house, she didn't need to resort to the back seats of cars. And then I told her about that woman who hadn't had sex for 30 years and started sleeping with men after placing a classified ad in the paper. And then wrote a book about her sexual exploits. (I wrote about this earlier in my blog. I still can't remember the name of that book or the author.) So I told my mom maybe she should put an ad in the paper and see how many responses she gets. She could have men flying in from all over the country just to have a weekend sexual encounter with her. and then she could write a book about it. (that was another good laugh.)
So the new year looks likes its going to bring good things: more open communication with my mom; a better understanding of my mom by me, and maybe some sexual encounters for my mom (although I wouldn't hold my breath on that one). Happy New Year!!!
Saturday, December 29
My highly scientifc survey on the average sex drive
I had read that men think about sex 10 times a day (as I mentioned in my earlier blog) and so I decided to hold my own scientific and highly technical survey on how many times the average person thinks about sex. So i posed the question on my blogcatalog page "How often do you think about sex?".
so far I have about 50 responses (some are repeat responders, I guess cuz they think about sex sooo much that they needed to respond more than once. :-)
And what I found was actually very amazing. Most of the men laughed at the concept of ONLY thinking about sex 10 times a day. It seems they think about sex once every 8 seconds. YIKES!!! How is it that the male species has managed to run the world up till now? How do they get anything done?!!!
Some of the anwers from the survey were very funny, so i'm listing some of them here for you to read. and i'm also providing links to their blogs as a thanks for answering my survey.
From ModelElaine:
"I have more sex then I want to think of LOL, so while I am not having sex, I don't even want to think about it, and while I am having sex I think of something else"
ModelElaine's blog
From Xight:
"Being the average male, about 6 times while writing and posting this comment."
Xight's blog
From dannyvice:
"Well statistically, I think the Kinsey Institude determined it to be about every 8 seconds for males.... For me it all depends on my mood, but certainly not anywhere near 8 seconds. =)"
dannyvice's blog
From offendedblogger:
"Kinsey was a pervert lol, you can't trust his data."
offendedblogger's blog
From thegnr:
"Any one who says they never think about sex probably thinks about it all day. You will find some women that say never because some are afraid of how others will view them. Sex is a natural don't be ashamed of it, how do you think we all got here people. I would say on average about 2-4 times a day."
thegnr's blog
From trlrtrash13:
"It is every eight seconds. But we sleep a third of the day so... But I don't usually think about sex that much anymore. I'm on a higher plane of enlightenment. I ponder the great mysteries of the cosmos. Like 'I wonder if I could eat this whole slice of pizza in one bite'."
trlrtrash13's blog
From voodooKobra:
"Constantly."
voodooKobra's blog
From emiltsch:
"well...3 times while I responded to this..."
From emiltsch:
"and three more times after I responded..."
emiltsch's blog
From Unfettered:
"I don't think I ever thought about sex every 8 seconds. Good grief. This is the weirdest statistic. How could one get anything done? Now I'm in my 40's. I think about a warm bath and a good steak way more often and with much more satisfaction."
Unfettered's blog
From crazedmama:
"My husband used to call me a nympho, lol. That was until I had twins. After they were born, my sex drive just dwindled. I think about it maybe a few times a week. It used to always be on my mind but most of the time now I would just rather go to sleep!"
crazedmama's blog
From zawadi:
"When Aunt Flow is about to visit, my eggs scream to be fertalized. I don't like the feeling cause i'm single at the moment lol."
zawadi's blog
To read all the comments visit my blogcatalog
here
. And happy holidays!
so far I have about 50 responses (some are repeat responders, I guess cuz they think about sex sooo much that they needed to respond more than once. :-)
And what I found was actually very amazing. Most of the men laughed at the concept of ONLY thinking about sex 10 times a day. It seems they think about sex once every 8 seconds. YIKES!!! How is it that the male species has managed to run the world up till now? How do they get anything done?!!!
Some of the anwers from the survey were very funny, so i'm listing some of them here for you to read. and i'm also providing links to their blogs as a thanks for answering my survey.
From ModelElaine:
"I have more sex then I want to think of LOL, so while I am not having sex, I don't even want to think about it, and while I am having sex I think of something else"
ModelElaine's blog
From Xight:
"Being the average male, about 6 times while writing and posting this comment."
Xight's blog
From dannyvice:
"Well statistically, I think the Kinsey Institude determined it to be about every 8 seconds for males.... For me it all depends on my mood, but certainly not anywhere near 8 seconds. =)"
dannyvice's blog
From offendedblogger:
"Kinsey was a pervert lol, you can't trust his data."
offendedblogger's blog
From thegnr:
"Any one who says they never think about sex probably thinks about it all day. You will find some women that say never because some are afraid of how others will view them. Sex is a natural don't be ashamed of it, how do you think we all got here people. I would say on average about 2-4 times a day."
thegnr's blog
From trlrtrash13:
"It is every eight seconds. But we sleep a third of the day so... But I don't usually think about sex that much anymore. I'm on a higher plane of enlightenment. I ponder the great mysteries of the cosmos. Like 'I wonder if I could eat this whole slice of pizza in one bite'."
trlrtrash13's blog
From voodooKobra:
"Constantly."
voodooKobra's blog
From emiltsch:
"well...3 times while I responded to this..."
From emiltsch:
"and three more times after I responded..."
emiltsch's blog
From Unfettered:
"I don't think I ever thought about sex every 8 seconds. Good grief. This is the weirdest statistic. How could one get anything done? Now I'm in my 40's. I think about a warm bath and a good steak way more often and with much more satisfaction."
Unfettered's blog
From crazedmama:
"My husband used to call me a nympho, lol. That was until I had twins. After they were born, my sex drive just dwindled. I think about it maybe a few times a week. It used to always be on my mind but most of the time now I would just rather go to sleep!"
crazedmama's blog
From zawadi:
"When Aunt Flow is about to visit, my eggs scream to be fertalized. I don't like the feeling cause i'm single at the moment lol."
zawadi's blog
To read all the comments visit my blogcatalog
here
. And happy holidays!
Wednesday, December 26
Sex Links and All That Crap!
I logged onto my blog after 4 days away for the holiday only to find my google ad box had an ad for hot horny girls. grrrrr!!!! I hate that. Just because my blog talks about women and sexual issues, the google ad search engines thinks I'm some porn page that needs porn ads to go with it. again i say, grrrrr!!!
Its really amazing to me how much of a focus our society has on sex. I've been looking for affiliate products to promote and researching what the top sellers are. And most of them are sex products: penal enlargements, viagra, ect. Why am I surprised? I guess I'm just an old fashioned girl.
What's really interesting to me is how often men think about sex. I saw somewhere that the average man thinks about sex 10 times a day. Wow!!! I think about sex MAYBE 10 times a week, and that's an above average week for me. sometimes I don't think about sex for days at a time.
So now they have this new stuff out for women that will make them horny. I'm not knocking it, maybe if I had this stuff when I was married my marriage would have been happier. Or at least, our sex life would have been better. I was married to a man who wanted sex EVERY DAY. And if we did have sex in the morning, he was already horny again by evening. Jezzzz. I on the other hand, wanted sex about once a week. They say sexual incompatability is one of the top 3 reasons people get divorced. yes, I know that struggle well.
I'm not against promoting sex, I'm just against promoting women as sex objects. So i promptly deleted the google ad from my page. I guess I'll have to hand-pick my ads from now on. Sorry if that ad offended anyone.
Its really amazing to me how much of a focus our society has on sex. I've been looking for affiliate products to promote and researching what the top sellers are. And most of them are sex products: penal enlargements, viagra, ect. Why am I surprised? I guess I'm just an old fashioned girl.
What's really interesting to me is how often men think about sex. I saw somewhere that the average man thinks about sex 10 times a day. Wow!!! I think about sex MAYBE 10 times a week, and that's an above average week for me. sometimes I don't think about sex for days at a time.
So now they have this new stuff out for women that will make them horny. I'm not knocking it, maybe if I had this stuff when I was married my marriage would have been happier. Or at least, our sex life would have been better. I was married to a man who wanted sex EVERY DAY. And if we did have sex in the morning, he was already horny again by evening. Jezzzz. I on the other hand, wanted sex about once a week. They say sexual incompatability is one of the top 3 reasons people get divorced. yes, I know that struggle well.
I'm not against promoting sex, I'm just against promoting women as sex objects. So i promptly deleted the google ad from my page. I guess I'll have to hand-pick my ads from now on. Sorry if that ad offended anyone.
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